When I talk to business owners about why they started, freedom is usually in the mix.
Freedom to do things their way. Freedom to choose how they spend their time. Freedom to build something that gives them more options in life, not fewer.
But what I often see is the very opposite.
Instead of freedom, the business becomes a cage. Every decision needs their sign-off. Every problem comes back to them. They carry the weight of it all in their heads – the vision, the detail, the responsibility. Stepping away, even for a short while, feels impossible.
This is the paradox of control. The more tightly you hold on, the less freedom you create.
I was reminded of this earlier this year when I took on a personal challenge to climb Kilimanjaro. It wasn’t something I’d ever pictured myself doing, and I actually went into it with plenty of doubts. What surprised me most was how little the climb was about sheer determination or forcing my way through (although resilience did play a part!).
It was about letting go.
I had to trust the guides who knew the mountain better than I ever could. I had to accept the pace, even when it felt painfully slow. And I had to lean on the team around me when the altitude made every step harder.
If I’d tried to control every aspect – the route, the timing, the outcome – I doubt I’d have made it. Letting go wasn’t a weakness. It was the only way forward.
And it’s exactly the same in business.
We tell ourselves that holding on keeps us safe. That if we stay across every detail, nothing can go wrong. But truthfully, businesses are stronger when they aren’t dependent on one person. When systems carry the load, when teams know what they’re responsible for, when decisions don’t all flow through one pair of hands.
That’s where freedom comes from. Not in walking away completely, but in knowing you could if you wanted to. In knowing the business would keep moving, clients would still be served, and your team would know what to do without you there every minute.
I meet so many owners at this crossroads. They’ve built something impressive, but it relies completely on them. Growth feels too heavy, standing still feels frustrating, and stepping back feels impossible.
The solution isn’t to work harder or hold tighter. It’s to redefine control. It isn’t about being across everything – it’s having the right systems and people in place so the business can run without you.
That’s what creates choice. And choice is what most people were looking for all along when they started.
If you’re ready to stop being the default decision-maker and start building a more resilient operation, get in touch and let us share how we can support your journey.
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